Helping You Find Practical Solutions In Divorce & Co-Parenting

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Want to ask your spouse for a divorce? Read this first

On Behalf of | Jul 5, 2022 | Divorce

There are a few situations where divorce is easy. However, if you have decided this is the direction you want to go, figuring out how to tell your spouse can be tricky. 

The good news is, that there are a few tips that can help. Keep reading to learn more.

Be sure it’s what you want

You should talk to your spouse about the situation. Figure out if divorce is the only option. Sometimes, your spouse may not realize there’s an issue, and it may be something you both want to work through. 

Be firm about your decision

It’s important to be clear about what you want and stay compassionate when it comes to your spouse’s feelings. Try to avoid blaming your partner or getting angry. Just be firm about your decision and clear about what you want to happen. 

Talk to a professional

If you have any doubts or questions about divorcing, you should speak to a counselor before moving forward. Make sure it’s the right move for you and your future. 

Set boundaries for the future

It’s a good idea to keep some amount of privacy about your decision until you decide it’s the move you want to make. This gives you and your spouse a chance to process the decision. Don’t automatically change your status to “single” on social media after you ask for a divorce. Remember, divorce can be an emotional process. After deciding how and when you will tell people you can move forward. 

Taking the right steps when divorcing

As mentioned above, divorce can be an emotional process. Because of this, it’s a good idea to make sure that it is what you really want. It’s also a good idea to work with a legal professional who can help you navigate these difficult waters.